after a few days of desperatly trying to get an invitation it finally happened!!!
the funny thing is that after i got the invitation i got another one... oh well...

while gmail is a great service it has its cons, and you REALLY GOT TO READ their poicies and terms of use...

http://gmail.google.com/gmail/help/terms_of_use.html
[especially point #7]

more detail here \: http://gmail.google.com/gmail/help/privacy.html

http://gmail.google.com/gmail/help/program_policies.html

here is another link for the extra creepy peoplehttp://gmail-is-too-creepy.com/

im not saying GMAIL is bad or anything i use it, but i also want you to know what you are getting into...